Life Changing Decisions

Tuesday, January 25, 2011 Bojoy 6 Comments

"Your life changes the moment you make a new, congruent, and committed decision." ~Anthony Robbins

Decision making. I admit that this is one thing that I'm not very good at. I find it hard to decide on something, even on small things like what to wear to work, what gift to buy, or what movie to watch. I find myself always unsure of something. Maybe because I grew up depending on my parents. Somehow I learned to be independent when I became a mother yet I still depend on my partner more often. I am used to of having someone to decide for me or do things for me. I find it hard to decide on myself, I always search for people's approval and make sure that what I would decide on is agreeable for everyone. So you see, you could quite picture out how I am when it comes to decision making. But then recently I have made a life changing decision and I am damn sure of it.

Today was my last day working for Eversun Software Phil. Corp. I submitted my resignation letter last week and since I don't have a client my resignation took an immediate effect. Coming up with this decision was not easy but with constant prayers, I knew in my heart what God wants me to do. Everything just fell into place and when I finally made up my mind, I know I was sure of it and no one can stop me. I seldom wanted something so bad, and this is one of them. I wanted to quit work and focus with my family. Specially now that my lil kiddo's going to school this coming June, I feel the strong desire of being there for him. To guide me and support him as goes out into the world and start building connections with other kids. Time flies so fast, my baby is a baby no more!! :'( He'll be turning 4 this June and he's growing real fast. I miss the baby I used to cradle but I love him still, loving him more!

Tomorrow morning I will wake up as a full-time stay at home mom to my beautiful son Ayne, and while I am excited for this future I will never forget the career that I have truly enjoyed at Eversun Software Philippine Corp. Goodbye to all my friend and colleagues here, I am thankful for all the great memories. Thanks for 3 great years! ^^, I will miss all of you. I wish the best for the company and it's future endeavors.

6 lovable comments:

ice9web said...

ma miss gyud taka joy! huhuhu dugay pud baya ta nag sama... dami2x din natin pinagsamahan sa office mga katawanan ug sometimes gamay na problems noon night shift pa ko (^_^)

yeah dapat gyud mag focus kana sa anak mo kasi hindi lahat ng panahon magiging bata pa siya... before you knew it Highschool na yan! (^_^)

always ingat and God bless!

Life changing decisions are like reaching a crucial crossroad in your life. Whichever way you choose will determine your direction for the rest of your life. So many things must be considered when you decided to quit your full time job in exchange for being a full time mom to your growing kid. The most important aspect is whether you can afford not to work to augment the family income. Most couples nowadays both work to fully support their family needs. But that was your decision and let us just all hope and pray that it was a right one. Thanks for the personal post. God bless you all always.

We are traveling the road of our lives. I know your decision is right. congrats!

bOjoy said...

@aice: thanks ice! ma miss pd tka and the rest of AoV peeps. It's been 3 yrs pd and my first job also. So memorable gyd kau akong stay with Eversun. I'll miss all of you!!! take care always.

@Kuya Mel: Thanks kuya Mel. yes i've thought and prayed about it until i have reached my final decision. it may be hard at first but i'm doing it for my family. and besides i've thought about the financial matters and i won't allow myself to stand empty handed. ^^. so my son's still secure i could still attend t his needs. ^^. thanks for the comment kuya!

bOjoy said...

@osCommerce templates: thank you!!! ^^.

Mars said...

We are very much the same when it comes to decision making. I couldn't decide for myself as well, and I totally understand what you meant when you said you seldom wanted something so bad. These are the moments wherein you are very sure that you wanted it, no matter what happens. Good luck on your SAHM moments! ^_^ At least you know you'll be with your kiddo whenever he needs you.

By the way, I'm building a blogroll for my new blog and I hope I could exchange links with you? :) Thanks in advance!

Mars @ The Life Encounters